Is your ‘inner beast’ the missing piece of your relationship?

What better time for a man to reevaluate his dating life than during the month of love.

Besides chocolate, flowers, and dinner reservations, perhaps part of a man’s Valentines gift to their significant other can be improving relationship skills and work on feeling more connected.

To seek guidance on all things dating ahead of Valentine’s Day, Ara from Beach Radio turned to relationship and life coach, Brandon Archer.

He teaches guys important aspects to dating, which he feels is either not taught enough, or has been misunderstood completely.

Ara: What key piece of advice do you have to help guys understand our partners and what they’re really looking for from us?

Archer: They want to feel connected to you as a man and it’s not necessarily in ways you think it is. Connection is a very nuanced thing, and each woman can be slightly different too.

So, you need to learn what a woman actually needs from a man on a deep level.

Ara: You talk about the fire inside on your website but I’m sure some men think it doesn’t exist. How do we dig deeper to unearth our inner romantic flame?

Archer: That fire in a man, that beast that he feels, it’s real, it’s there. Society has buried it and I know for a fact, I’ve seen it time and again with a man that taps into that, his energy changes and that romance part completely morphs.

He is now this man that a woman desires because he is so connected to his heart.

Ara: This is not some overnight process. You need to do the work. Give us a quick example of someone who turned their life around with your help.

Archer: I worked with a guy for three months. He had all these paradigms and beliefs around relationships. We worked hard on it and now I have his wife contacting me saying, ‘thank you so much for helping us with our relationship.

He worked on and connected with himself, and it completely transformed their relationship.